should i just give up looking for answers?
before I start I just wanna say I'm safe now and living my brother and his finace
I'm 18 and suffered emotional abuse since was young and then physical abuse at 13, all from my father. At that time, I guess it got to be too much for my mom and she left. I've tried contacting her through the years, but to no avail.
I have a lot mixed feelings about her wanna ask her so many things. My brother's finace says that maybe i should give up and looking for an answer from her is gonna drive me crazy...are they right?
@0gross glad you are safe with your brother and his fiance. having unanswered questions would frustrate me. i could go on with lots of possible answers until finally it overwhelmed me and made me unable to function as i should. i know finding your mom and asking her the questions you have might seem a comforting idea, but considering to the efforts that you've done, sounds like it's quite unlikely to happen. if this matters started to affect your daily basis, maybe it's time to start letting go? what do you think?
