Betrayel trauma
I caught my husband s.e.x.t.i.n.g with random girls only 6 months after we got married. And i guess I am traumatized by this. I always feel that I'm not enough for him, Always wanting to go through his stuff and search his phone and messages. I find it hard to believe it when he tells me that he loves me and only want me. And it's very hard to trust him like i used to.
I want to be over this but I can't...
Anybody has any useful advise?
I'm so sorry you found out about this. It must be difficult for you to make sense as to why he did this. It will take time to get through this, but you will!
How is it going now? I am working on getting over a cheating spouse, the trauma is ruining my new relationship. I hope you are doing well
Girl I've been through the same thing. I've had exs that have always been doing this behind me back. And they always say the same things saying that they like chatting and that it's all that it is just chatting. It's not chatting it's se.xting and they know that. I've realized guys live doing this with girls they meet online. It's almost like a game of thrill to then that they can easily just do. The way I see it they just like having more fun and I learned to live with it. I kinda just let my boyfriend do what he wants since it's just messaging. My bf still does this se.xting thing and I told him not to fall in love with anyone. That is our one rule. So we respect each other regardless of what he receives or shares. I know he still loves me so I am not worried about him leaving me I still keep him on check.