Curating Content, and setting expectations in a relationship with content?

Once I know an artist has been convicted of crimes such as assault, I wouldn't want to continue listening to that artist or band, especially if it is a singer. Knowing that voice was violent to someone during an act of assaullt, it would and has given me such an uncomfortable feeling to hear them. So, I must research an artist before hand before I am willing to listen. I can easily let go of music if later on a band that was once fine turns... not. Once I know a band has been tainted by a disgusting member, I can't stomach to listen, even if the rest of the band were unaware. This is what works for me. As a survivor of assault, I simply can't ignore that I am listening to someone who harmed someone like I was harmed. It reminds me of my own harm, and I can't shake the thoughts that haunt me of who and how a person was harmed by the artist. I'm also deciding for myself if I have a partner, I would tell them I am looking for someone else with the same values. I wouldn't want a relationship if the person could ignore they are listening to a *** or pedophile. Has anyone else considered these boundaries?