Harassed by my teacher for 2 months
My teacher was bullying me, making inappropriate comments about my body, touching me, threatening me if I didn't go into his classroom alone after school, and told me no one would believe me if I reported him because everyone loves him. My anxiety was through the roof! Title 9 eventually got involved, but the teacher didn't get fired. Now there is a sexual predator in the halls of my school. Imagine how powerless I feel that they didn't believe me enough... Now my peers are spreading rumors that I lied and tried to get him fired. Great. We all know girls are generally honest in situations like this.
@PositivePotato it is a shame he is doing this to you. We believe you and you totally got this.
Please never stay alone with this person under any circumstance. Absolutely do what you have to do to feel safe. It is true that when reporting this type of situations it is surprising how some people take it lightly, but some will support you. We don't care what the first people think, we care about your security. Always remember that you have the power to talk back, record him live, scream or run, or report it, or ask to be in another class.
Anything is valid, this person needs to be remembered that we can fight back, that we have it in us.
Please ask for the help of people around you, people that you trust or that you know are good. There are also resources on the Internet to search for other help in your area in case the school continues to ignore this.
I was in a similar situation, and he needs to see that you have support and maybe label you as difficult. These predators don't like difficult, so we need to aim for that. They also don't like when we take a lot of measures for security.
And please take care of yourself 💖, it is important to find spaces to relax during the day and to recharge. I know this can take the anxiety through the roof as you said, and it is tough. Find calm and comfort in the fact that you got this and that people care for you.
Much love and strength to you 🤗💗
@honestString
Thank you and it is ridiculous and surprising that some people do take it lightly. They think it's not serious until a girl gets raped and then blame her for it. It's awful.😭
it is ridiculous 😞, and usually these predators are experienced actors when talking to others. But we know the truth and others will too eventually. It is a little disruptive when this happens in our lives but we can grow from it, and end up better and stronger
sounds like I'm just trying to be nice but it is true, I swear. It gives you confidence to face future challenges, just don't let this define who you are, and it is really important that we think of other things during the day, in a safe area hehe
it is awful though 😔 and nobody deserves this, but challenge accepted
many many hugs! 🤗🤗🤗
I'm pretty exhausted too today from overthinking, I will take a nap 😴 or pass out, can't decide 🙈, maybe watch a fun show later 😁📺
