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Help telling my mom about a situation

User Profile: brightPeach4162
brightPeach4162 June 27th

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I'm not exactly sure what area to put this on as I just joined this app but over 2 years ago a situation happened where my own father sexually assaulted me. I haven't told any family just close friends. Well just recently my mom has been diagnosed with cancer and I want to tell her but I don't want her to blame herself as I'm not sure how long she may have left. I'm also afraid she may pass before I can tell her but I'm not ready to tell her yet. I don't know what to do some help would be nice please.

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User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 27th

@brightPeach4162

Have you got any treatnent considering the assult?

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User Profile: brightPeach4162
brightPeach4162 OP June 27th

No i haven't. When it first happened I was scared to mention it to anyone as I was living with him at the time it happened. And the only people I've told is close friends

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User Profile: CalmSupport1
CalmSupport1 June 27th

I’m really sorry you’re dealing with this. What happened is not your fault. It makes sense you feel stuck. You don’t have to rush telling your mom take your time and maybe talk to someone you trust first. You deserve support

User Profile: AReine
AReine June 30th

@brightPeach4162 Do you think telling her will help you?