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User Profile: Catherine23564
Catherine23564 December 9th, 2025

I hate it when people say : others have it worse ,well I don't think so ,or when people say stop victimising yourself . Well ,I am a victim and in order for me to heal I have to acknowledge that I am a victim and no ,others do NOT have it worse,I've also been through the worst. Because my suffering is not measured by what others go through,I suffer my unique suffering and it is bad enough. If you can't be empathetic and kind then just don't say anything

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 9th, 2025

@Catherine23564

I understand what you mean.

It's not for anyone else to trivialize your feelings!

You need to do what you have to, to heal 💖

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User Profile: pinkPal4561
pinkPal4561 December 11th, 2025

@Catherine23564

Those that are unable and/or uncapable of being empathetic and/or kind are not your people; ignore them!

On the other hand, we do encounter contrary ideas/vibrations to further expand our own capacity for information, discernment, wisdom, and greater awareness of our selves reflected from a variety of points.  Perhaps how people present is showing what may be lacking in them, and vibrant in you?  Just a thought... 

AND most highlighted, your experiences are VALID; your feelings are VALID. There is no comparison. This is intelligence in action.  Our strength is in knowing we have the power to give our attention as we choose.

Much love, healing, and growth to you, oh thriving one!