how have you found comfort in uncomfortable situations?

hi everyone. i’m sure at least some of you have heard about the recent shooting at florida state university. well, i am currently enrolled as a student and was there when everything happened. the place that i felt most comfortable in, i felt safe in, that’s gone. ever since i’ve moved there, fsu has became a home away from home and it’s like i’m in a different neighborhood now, if that makes any sense. i’m not asking anyone to share any stories that they aren’t comfortable in sharing, but how have you guys adjusted when things just don’t feel right? i know things will never be the same, but do you guys have any coping mechanisms that helped get through things that feel like they will mentally linger forever?