Inner Strength
Unfortunate traumatic events can happen to anyone. People can be victims of many unforeseen, negative incidents which they didn't deserve. There is no reason to place blame upon yourself. You have done nothing wrong to deserve poor treatment from others.
Becoming stronger, as a result of having to cope with traumatic situations can be a positive outcome from devastating experiences. Growing as a person through enduring hardship, and overcoming personal challenges, can be beneficial after these unnecessary, inappropriate situations occur in one's life. Keep looking up - you are stronger for having gone through your challenges.
You can engage in personal growth through every tough situation you face in your life.
@IsabelleJ Thank you Isabelle for posting and sorry I wasnt around to set you up a forum thread. but happy to create trauma through bullying thread tomorrow if you would still welcome this :) Such wise words and so true, and I can really identify with this today :) We can all grow through experiences we go through, and they can actually make us much stronger people for having to face adversity and situations in which we have been hurt by others directly or indirectly, through their actions, lack of action words etc. Great post
@dancingRainbow45
Thank you, Rainbow :) Yes, I would welcome this!
Agreed! I think there's learning, and there's growing. I think you can learn from situations, but to grow from situations is something else entirely. Personal strength doesn't look like being an action hero, sometimes personal strength just means waking up this morning and saying, "I woke up ."