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My best friend is not here

User Profile: impartialLemon1114
impartialLemon1114 June 4th, 2022

She was my best friend over 10 years one day she don't reply my messages and then she removed me because her boyfriend tell her to do that as he is narcissist. She married and all our friends attend the wedding party except me..this happened year ago and until now i feel alone,disappointed,missing her, i feel like no one understands me,,she can,,i don't know how to heal,i have other friends but no one can understand me or feel me like her ..all the time we said we ate soulmates..what can i do?! How to forget and heal? Now I'm very lonely and get away from all mu friends i feel like Its not my place..anyone passed by something like that and can tell me how to heal and move on?


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User Profile: lyrmonica
lyrmonica June 4th, 2022

@impartialLemon1114

Hi there, I am sorry for what you are experiencing at this moment. I know how it feels because I also had the same experience before. I had best friends who I lived with her and hung out every day. However, after I moved to another state, we never talked. I used to see it as a big deal, but now I don't. There is one thing I keep telling myself: My friends and anyone around me could become my past. We should be happy and grateful if we met someone that we really get along with, like your best friend. Your life is like a bus. There is someone getting on, and there is someone getting off. There is no one we can forever hang on to in our life except ourselves. Everyone left or is going to leave. However, we can try to see this positively. If someone exits your life, it probably means that you are going to meet some excellent people. Finally, my best advice is to continue to do what you are doing right now, and time will heal it.