Sometimes I wonder am I wrong?

Sometimes I wonder am I wrong for feeling the way that I do. Now Im a wife and a mother. Well I have this husband of mines that doesnt listen to any of my opinions and when I go to telling him how I feel about that, everything goes left like what I gotta say doesnt matter and it kinda hurts. He feel like he should be the only one that calls the shots. When I know it shouldnt be like that. We live in a 2 bedroom 1 bathroom living room with dining apartment. Well, we also have a 1 year old son. My husband is paralyzed from the waist down and I just feel like our apartment is getting to small. Not only because of our son toys are everywhere but also all my husband supplies because I run out of placing to put things. While I have to move my things to to inside the closet. I just feel like its not fair. My opinion should matter and I wanna move to a better place.