was it sexual assault/abuse?
Booklover95
April 6th, 2018
@dynamicHemlock1736
If scared, in my opinion yes. Because that's manipulation and controling behaviour, which can work as some sort of "brainwash" to the victim, which stops the victim from 100% say what they meant.
However in terms of pressure I don't see this as abusive in sexual terms.. The person still gave consent, wheather is real or not. I consider the person who pressured gross and with questionable morals, but in the end if the other person consented this doesn't become a crime . Is kinda fucked up mentally that the person intimidated the other, but is still a consentual act between two people.
Hope I made sense?
i just feel bad considering it as abuse because i couldnt say no. i didnt say anything actually but that was because he scared me so much and physically assaulted me too. I dont really know what to think about it.