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I was trying to resolve an issue with my sister and texted her about my concerns, although I realized after that I should have called. I hoped we could resolve the issue or at least find a compromise. She disagreed with a choice I made, and I was asking her to respect it—not agree with or embrace it.
I was trying to resolve an issue with my sister and texted her about my concerns, although I now realize I probably should have called. I hoped we could resolve the issue or at least find a compromise. She disagreed with a choice I made, and I was asking her to respect it—not agree with or embrace it.
I sent her a message, and she responded with several messages that ended with her cutting me out of her life. I was instantly thrown back to the day my mom did the same thing after I decided I did not want the person who hurt me as a child in my life. I do not understand how the sister I thought would always be by my side could end our relationship so quickly. It hurts so much.
@damagedbuthealing16
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I'm sorry that she did this.
It seems like a very drastic action and one you don't deserve 🩷

I know that when it comes to family, emotions can run raw. Maybe she said that in the heat of the moment and after some time passes, she may think differently?
Sometimes space just helps us think objectively or taking a break from the pressure to talk is helpful too.
In the meantime, just try to take care of yourself with feelgood activities, it's out of your control..