PTSD Poll/Question Results for Does having PTSD affect your verbal and non verbal communication?
PTSD Poll/Question Results for Does having PTSD affect your verbal and non verbal communication?
The results are now in for our latest PTSD Poll/question on whether verbal and non verbal communication is affected as a result of having PTSD.
Once again the Poll received a great response. This was an anonymous poll and I would like to thank everyone who took part :)
The results are as follows:
Verbal Communication
47.1% of those who took part, said Yes, their verbal communication was affected all the time, as a result of having PTSD
47.1% of those who took part, said Yes, when symptomatic, their verbal communication was affected, as a result of having PTSD
5.9% of those who took part, said they have never really noticed if their verbal communication was affected, as a result of having PTSD
Non-Verbal Communication
64.7% of those who took part, said Yes, their non verbal communication was affected all the time, as a result of having PTSD
23.5% of those who took part, said Yes, their non verbal communication was affected when symptomatic of suffering with PTSD
11.8% of those who took part, said they had never really noticed if their non verbal communication was affected as a result of having PTSD
Trauma survivors with PTSD may have difficulties in their relationships with others, and can often find problems with communication as a result of the symptoms of their PTSD. These problems may affect the way the survivor acts with others. In turn, the way a loved one responds to him or her affects the trauma survivor. A circular pattern can develop that may sometimes harm relationships.
Many survivors cant find the words to express what theyre feeling. Even when they do, its very normal for them not to be comfortable sharing their experience. Elements of shame, fear, anger, guilt and grief often get in the way of a calm, focused discussion. Survivor's due to fear, shame, feelings of guilt, anxiety etc may withdraw from others, find it difficult to communicate at times, be completely mute, unable to get their needs met, or may have extreme reactions of anger, rage, lashing out at others emotionally or even physically.
The following are examples of how someone with PTSD may struggle with communication and/or in their relationships
Even if a Survivor of PTSD is normally very articulate, when suffering the effects of PTSD they may find their communication shot to pieces - being unable to string sentances together, being unable to speak fluently, words becoming jumbled, saying the wrong things, losing the ability to even write down what they feel, struggling to put words together which make sense to the observer or listener. At times, the Survivor may be so overwhelmed with pain, fear, anxiety and panic, that they shut down completely and are unable to communicate. Some may find their lose their voice, don't have the energy to speak, and that if they do speak, if they do connect, they will find things so overwhelming that they wont cope and could die. Reliving trauma memories, avoiding trauma reminders, and struggling with fear and anger greatly interfere with a survivor's ability to concentrate, listen carefully, and make cooperative decisions and can all lead to a breakdown in their communication ability and skills.
PTSD affects a persons emotions, and recent research indicates that PTSD affects the ability to recognize facial expressions. The inability to recognize facial expressions is significant because factual knowledge that is associated with certain types of facial expressions is lost when the ability to recognize these is diminished. This can lead to serious misunderstandings, and miscommunications and subsequently could lead to further problems in a Survivors communication with others, and in their relationships.
The struggles Survivors of PTSD have with communication, can also often be seen in their non-verbal body language, where someone may appear to be distant and not focused, inability to give people eye contact, sat huddled up as though they were a small child, shaking and trembling, rocking to bring comfort to themselves, creating more physical distance between themselves and their friends and family, being jumpy and on edge.
A Survivor with PTSD may have a powerful sense of disconnection. They may feel locked within their own world, often reacting with a fight or flight response, which in turn may lead a Survivor to not be aware of how they may be coming across. They may find difficulty understanding other people's points of view, and find it hard to anticipate their reactions. People may not understand what the PTSD sufferer is saying. Communication may appear distant, broken, incomplete or fragmented.
A Survivor may be unable to create emotional connection, a rapport with others, due to being shut down, numb etc which can lead to communication falling apart very easily, or shutting down so much that they stop communicating altogether.
Lacking Assertiveness. Exhibiting PTSD symptoms of learned helplessness, shock, numbness, apathy may mean Survivors being revictimised and feeling used. Feeling helpless and powerless may lead to problems getting heard and getting needs met successfully.
Nervous System Activation – High Stress Condition in Brain and Body. A lot of Survivors of trauma, suffering with PTSD are extremely sensitive to the other persons tone of voice, and can pick up signs that perhaps someone is being rude, insensitive, angry, impatient and so on. This can often then lead to the Survivor shutting down and cutting off communication at the slightest thing.
Rage. Being prone to experience sudden, overwhelming rage (the fight response), whether expressed or repressed, may lead to the communication ending in a negative way – e.g. arguments, cutting off the person, leaving.
Those with PTSD often find it difficult to organise and process information. They may lose track of conversations, and need reminding of what was being talked about or become confused easily.
Lack of Concentration and Focus. Those with PTSD may get easily distracted by things whilst trying to communicate, may be affected by triggers, unwanted images and feelings. As a result communication can draw to a halt, or the Survivor may need to ask someone what they had just said, what was being talked about.
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@dancingRainbow45
OMG thank you for this information. It made me cry because it sounds so much like what I've been struggling so much with, but I still feel like I'm just making it up or exagerrating because I'm looking for excuses 
@hereigoagain Hey Hereigo it certainly isn't making up excuses. You are actually dealing with it. That's how things happen in the brain. It affects the communication processes and makes it difficult to communicate verbally and non verbally. And it is omnipresent. That is why the responses are positive on this count in significant percentages.
@sujaypai
Yeah but... it's not that bad in my case? I didn't experience such extreme things either and I don't have a diagnosis. I thought I had Aspergers or something but apparently was too "normal" for that one. I'm not even aware of reliving things that happened, though sometimes I notice that I get extreme feelings that were very much the same. Maybe quite often. Well fine, if I were in your position I'd probably tell myself the same thing, but... Meh. Thank you 
@hereigoagain Glad you aren't diagnosed with it. But just that the percentages goes on to confirm the hypothesis stated. Well the causal factors can be many but we can just correlate the associations. And it is also co-morbid with other conditions as well. Discussions always spur new thoughts. And we have a long way to understand many of the conditions, their diagnosis and treatments. Hopefully much of research goes into this in the time to come and we make up for all the negligence we had towards research for these conditions. Thanks Hereigo.
Thank you so much for this. I thought I was the only one who experienced this, now I don't feel so abnormal!
After having a flashback, or when my other PTSD symptoms are particularly bad I just go completely mute and can't bring myself to speak, I've no idea why though.
@LittleLotte Im glad its helped you to know your not alone. Its actually quite common for some survivors to go mute when they are experiencing ptsd, flashbacks etc and this could be that when your original trauma occured you may not have been able to express what was happening and now as an adult, you may react as you once did back then but in the present day
@dancingRainbow45 Thank you for this explanation, I think it sort-of makes sense.
@dancingRainbow45 wow thank you for sharing that, I am at that point! I can't seem to remember anything and I am at a lose for words, I am so tired and frustrated!
Yes. I am shaking. This is the most accurate explanation; atleast for my PTSD I have ever come across. I almost don't have the energy to write this.