Trauma ruining Relationships
I cant stay in a relationship with anyone without ruining it because of my trauma i just ruin it. I even ask people who i start to become friends with on social media to block me.
@alice343583
Dear Alice:
I am sorry for that !
Trauma certainly makes it difficult to build relationships.
It is very frustrating, and you are right to feel frustrated and angry at that.
Maybe you should be more patient with yourself. Devote more time to yourself and your healing. Your own healing is the true path to relationships with others.
For some time, make more "low intensity" friendships without the expectation of getting much closer.
And make friends with people that will immediately understand you and respect your boundaries.
Like participating frequently and intensely in this Community.
I hope this helps you at least a little.
Keep in touch !
I wish you all the best,
Marcelo.