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Childhood abuse

March 4th, 2017

My father sexually abused my aunt when she was 11. I think I can't handle it. I am wondering is it possible that he abused me too?

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Rain45 March 7th, 2017

@indigoPlane6240 Im sorry that you found out about your dad abusing your aunt, that must have been really difficult for you to hear. How have you felt with it? You said you can't handle it and I'm wondering how you have managed to cope with this information since finding out? Regarding your fears about your dad and whether he abused you, this is not something anyone can answer for you. Sometimes an abuser can target one child and not hurt others, sometimes they target other children. Its a very difficult question to answer for someone who has not lived your experiences and who does not have the feelings you do. Would you say you had concerns regarding this prior to you finding out about your dad? Or is this very much arisen as a result of you finding out about what your dad did?

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March 8th, 2017

@dancingRainbow45 Thank you for your answer. When i heard this I think my feelings just stop to exist. It is too much for sadness.When I learned this I thought fathers should protect their child this kind of sick persons, fathers should not be THAT person. I didn't think he abused me before but definitely he had some weird behaviour to me like sucking my ear or down my pants for fun not always though or I did not like when my father hug me or kiss me ever. But I don't know. And I am not seeing my father anymore, I need to hear that I have right for this. Thank you again, for your kind message

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