Child on child sexual abuse
My first sexual experience was with another girl. I was about 10, she's a year younger than me so she was 9. I'm guessing 10 because I know I had not started my period when it began. I never did anything to her. She was always the initiator. It continued until I was about 12. I hired we were kids experimenting. Until this morning. My husband and I agree having a conversation and he told me "you were molested by another child" I didn't know what to say, and I'm not sure how to feel. I'm not mad. I'm positive and was doing to me what was done to her. I don't feel violated because I angways went along with it, I.... I don't know. I just don't know.
Hello dhemp. Child on child SA is unfortunately not spoken about and is often times invalidated. Therefore, we can internalize it and invalidate what happened. One thing that has helped me accept my trauma is listening to other people’s stories through forums like this or Reddit. However, you know yourself best and you know your feelings best. It’s important to look within and validate whatever you find because in the end we are the ones who experience our lives. Then again, sometimes people prefer to not even question it and simply let it go because looking further can cause more trauma. Again, you know yourself best and you’ll know how to best cope. Everything you need is within you! Best of luck (:
I never even thought I was abused until he said it. I'm not mad or anything. Still in shock a bit . But my heart breaks for her because I know what she went through was worse. I can't explain what I'm getting because I'm not sure what I feel.
I still don't really know what I feel about this. Confused is the best thing. But I am okay.
Same, thought and felt the exact same way. Does you brain try to tell you its not real?