Does this even count?TW

sorry to ask, but I feel like I'm not valid and was kind of looking for some other opinions so I don't come to a community that doesn't apply to me. Would it be considered sexual abuse if he "accidentally" touches your thighs and hands and stands behind you and breathes on your neck and smells your hair? In a really sexual way. And he threatens to rape and whispers sexual jokes about you and him into your ear?