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I was assaulted by my close friend

June 28th, 2020

hi! I'm new to 7cups so I'm not sure how this all works, so I'm sorry if I'm bad at this!

the other day, I went to the park with a couple friends to hang out. I was driven over by my really close friends, who for anonymity sake I'll refer to as H. H had been a really close friend for a while, and we spoke daily - only platonically. I classed him as my best friend. Admittedly, we'd flirt here and there, but it was always friendly, never with bad intentions.

after being at the park a while, I realised I got very drunk. I ran over to H to ask when he was taking me home, and he just kept saying "later". I was scared, and so rang female friends who were at the park. They helped me sober up a bit, but soon after had to go home. I was left at the park with only H and his Ex girlfriend who decided to start screaming at him for "bringing sl*ts to the park".

In the car ride home, I realised I was still drunk. I could barely open my eyes. H reached over to my leg, grabbed it and said "don't worry, you'll sober up before u get home". He then moved his hands into my jeans, before pulling up into a side street. I hit his arm and told him to take me home.

the car ride is a bit hazy, but all I remember is my eyes keeping closing, and his hand constantly down my jeans. He eventually pulled into another street and proceeded to sexually assault me. I cried, screamed, and he took me home.

he told all his friends I was "dying for it" and now I'm scared no one will believe me. I don't know what to do.

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User Profile: DangerMaus
DangerMaus June 28th, 2020

@softlilacandcream

It took a lot of courage to share this, you didnt deserve this and it's not your fault.

Are you in a safe place now? Please make sure you are with someone you trust right now.

I highly encourage you to call a sexual assault hotline right away https://www.rainn.org/ or 800.656.HOPE (4673).

I'm very sorry. We are here for you!

Maus

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June 29th, 2020

@DangerMaus thank you so so much for the support website!! It's really helped!!

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