My ex boyfriend blames me for being sexually assaulted
Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a few months ago and after we broke up a guy touched me inappropriately after I told him no and my ex boyfriend said to me "wow so you let him do more than you let me do to you" that was it I'm terrified but I miss my ex boyfriend so much
@kkkkkayla
I am so sorry you had to put up with that from your ex-boyfriend. Honestly, I used to have an ex-boyfriend who would say similar things when I would open up about traumatic incidents (Ex. situations where I never gave consent and/or didn't want things to happen). I found that this response from him was due to his own immaturity. He saw me as something to "possess" and regretted "doing the work" with me without getting that reward of sexual favors. It's messed up, but I want you to know that it's absolutely not your fault and doesn't say anything about you. It must hurt even more since you still have feelings for him. But he is showing who he truly is in this moment.
I am sorry that the other guy touched you inappropriately and I'm so sorry that this ex of yours made such horrible and self-centered comments. It really sucks and you shouldn't have to go through it.
@kkkkkayla This answer of your (ex) bf is sick. You are guilty of nothing. And being touch like that isn´t "letting someone do" anything. I can imagine it is an hard experience for you. But I think it´s better to be rid of such a "friend". Not? He doesn´t deserves you if he don´t support you and/or blames or shames you instead. You deserve better. Wish you much strength and everything good.