Need advice!
I work in a pre-school and my rapists wife and their child came to look around and put in an application for a place there. My life is in turmoil, I have no idea what to do. I love my job but I will have to leave as I can not get to know anyone to do with him and I can not put myself in the position where I may see him. It hasn't happened in years but happened more than once and went on for quite a few years.
Is your rapist in jail
Sorry to hear about that & thank you for sharing. I would recommend that you talk with your supervisor or anyone who's in charge of this pre school about the issue. Maybe they're able to work with you and make some changes in your schedule so that you're not in contact with those kids or the parents. Even though the kids are innocent and don't know what happened. I know that rape is not only physical damage but also emotional, it takes a lot of time to heal.
No he isn't in jail as I never reported it. He had so much control over me. And still has although I haven't seen him in a while. I don't know if I can tell anyone.
I hate people like him. Such a coward. I don't think it's fair that because of him you're not enjoying life and at peace. I don't want you to continue to torment yourself because of him. I think it's time to do something about it.