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Unsure of what happened

User Profile: secretHickory2662
secretHickory2662 June 3rd, 2021

I had sex with a friend but ... after having time to think about what happened I don't feel it was all consensual. Who do I talk to about this. I'm so confused how to feel and think, I trusted him but was left alone and hurt mentally, I just feel confused.

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User Profile: cuteeeezombieeee
cuteeeezombieeee June 6th, 2021

@secretHickory2662

Often, in the intensity of the moment, we fail to comprehend how serious a situation can be. I'm glad you found time to reflect on it and figure out what went wrong.

You mentioned that you didn't feel all of it was consensual..what makes you feel this way?

When we trust someone and they betray our trust, it can be immensely painful. It's okay for you to experience such emotions.

As for who you should talk to, if you have family members or friends that you trust, you may want to reach out to them for support! Alternatively, if you want a 1-to-1 chat with a listener, you could put out a request in the general request queue or PM (personal message) a listener through the browse listeners page!

Feel free to participate in the forums to connect with others who can relate to your situation.

Take care of yourself~Sierraheart

User Profile: Oceanwaves16
Oceanwaves16 June 9th, 2021

The best thing to do is to talk to someone you trust. If you feel this way after the encounter it may be an indicator that something more happened