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Was it my fault?

User Profile: persistentPapaya358
persistentPapaya358 March 12th, 2023

When I was 11 a boy 16 years old had showed me porn and I was curious so when I got home I had looked at the website and me and my parents never had open conversations about those things because yk I never really thought of it and neither had they because yk I was 11 and what I had saw I thought to try with my sister but my mom found out and told me siblings don't do that and I stopped because I realized that he shouldn't have showed me that and I shouldn't have did what I did and if I could I would take it back but I can't and I just want someone elses opinion like am I bad person ? Was it just wrong person wrong time what because I've been trying to make sense of it and I can't

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 March 13th, 2023

@persistentPapaya358 Hi! I hope you're doing okay. I want you to know that what happened is not your fault. You were a child and you couldn't control what the 16-year-old was showing you. I'm sorry he showed that to you because that was very inappropriate. Did you ever tell your parents that he showed that to you because you don't have to handle this on your own? You are not at fault and I promise you that you did nothing wrong. I hope you are doing okay and I promise you will get through this. I hope this helps. Please be kind to yourself ❤️

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User Profile: persistentPapaya358
persistentPapaya358 OP March 13th, 2023

@fruityPond7887 Hi thank you for responding to this I really needed other peoples opinion because I was so in my head about it and yes I am doing okay now I'm 14 and no I never told my parents that he was the one showing me that because I feel like it's just awkward and I'm too awkward to tell them atleast right now but again thank you I now know that it wasn't my fault and it's finally off my heart because I've always thought it was my fault and that I was messed up in the head yk stuff like that changes a person

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 March 13th, 2023

@persistentPapaya358 No I totally understand 💗 Sharing things like that can be really hard! I am really glad that you aren't letting it weigh you down because you are an amazing person and deserve the whole world! I am proud of you! 😊

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User Profile: persistentPapaya358
persistentPapaya358 OP March 13th, 2023

Hi thank you for responding to this I really needed other peoples opinion because I was so in my head about it and yes I am doing okay now I'm 14 and no I never told my parents that he was the one showing me that because I feel like it's just awkward and I'm too awkward to tell them atleast right now but again thank you I now know that it wasn't my fault and it's finally off my heart because I've always thought it was my fault and that I was messed up in the head yk stuff like that changes a person

User Profile: nlpinspiration
nlpinspiration March 20th, 2023

@persistentPapaya358 Hi. No, it is not your fault. We are still child on 11 and we are curious. Hopefully this helps