Well..
I feel so stupid for wanting a father figure in my life.. I was robbed of a father - mine sexualized me from a young age. My uncle passed away in 1996, I was 7 at the time.. he loved me like a father should. I just can't stop wishing I had a "Dad" as I'm dealing with the repressed garbage from my past. I feel so pathetic and sad, I can't help but laugh at myself
Intergalactic, you deserve a real father figure. Hold onto those memories of your Uncle's fatherly affections. Someday someone will come into your life that will be a fatherly figure for you at the right time. I didn't have a real normal father in my life either. I understand that pain. Be kind to yourself like you would a best friend. Be gentle with yourself you are dealing with alot of pain. I got into therapy and it made a big difference in my life, i recommend it if possible. You are worthy and deserve a good happy life but it will take work and diligence from you . You can be your own hero look at how strong you are!! I am doing it, not easy but if I can do it you can too. ABB
@intergalacticpeach
Hi !
Have you heard about "Reparenting" ?
I leave you a link about it HERE.
All the best !
Marcelo.