someone who is supposed to care about and protect me, violated me.
*TW* my partner of five years with whom I have a very loving relationship essentially raped me this weekend. we both went to bed drunk and I woke up in the middle of the night to just, being used. I feel awful. I feel terrible, broken, anxious sad, scared, trapped, I don't know how to approach confronting him about it. But I know if I dont do something, ill only feel worse and worse each day. I have no one to talk to. im just really not doing well.
@Bred2Bpleasant
I am sorry for all you went through, and how bad it made you feel.
You are right that you have to talk about this with him. You don't need to devise a clever argumentation. Let him know you wish to have a talk with him. and schedule a moment to talk.
During the talk, tell him the things that bother you, as they come to your mind at the moment. Show him your genuine emotions. You don't need to prepare any acting in advance.
Nothing will be more convincing than your spontaneous, genuine, unedited expression.
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I wish you all the best !
Marcelo