How do you avoid one thing leading to another on social media?
You have thousands or hundreds of people linked to your social media profile, you arrange a meeting or a date with one or more of them, they show up and you realize they are abusive, but they have turned everyone against you beforehand-your co workers, friends... How do you avoid such situations while literally being a target like a fly in a spider's web?
Okay.. so first of all I am/was in a similar situation but probably not by my lover but still smthing very similar.. and in this phase what i have realised is.. as long as you know you are right in something.. never under any pressure from anyone let your inner self down and accept any false allegation.. coz trust me on this It's only a matter of time, when the real truth abt everything surfaces and from there to the end of your life you will hold your head high.. as well as be filled with utter confidence of knowing that inspite of the entire world (yours) turning up against you.. you faced them eye to eye.. you may not have had the numbers but you had the will power.. and someday eventually they will bow to you.. and seek forgiveness express their guilt and repent just in case they don't, i hate to say it but their lives will go downhill.. and would have to suffer a lot in ways you might never get to know but they will. Trust me on this.. And just know that the truth can be kept down covered for some or long time, but eventually it does come out.. and the day it does from that day onwards you life will be a far better one.. your mental state much more improved and you will be more productive in anything you do be it studies be it job or be it social life.. i can say this coz i m going through a similar phase.. and my mind is working at a quarter of its real strength but still i m doing far better than those who are giving it their all.. you know why? coz God is helping me out every passing day every week i just can't get enough of all the blessings he has bestowed upon me.. of all the situation that keep happening every now and then that only support my purpose.. i can't understand what on earth i did to be as lucky as i am.. even tho i keep it to myself.. probably noone wud believe my words now but someday when they'll too ashamed to be around me after all they are doing, that day they would revisit all my explanations and statements and accept their mistakes maybe to their own selves and will be relieved.
And coming back to your question.. don't be so easy to date.. let people make enough efforts for you b4 you date em.. in this way you can filter out the trash.
All the best🤝
One Amongst You ❤️
@oneamongstyou285 I appriciate your long answer. But it did not help much as I don't draw much energy/motivation from theism. To make it clear, I did not date this person. It was a hypothetical question because I have encountered predatory behaviours before.
Hello, Cranberry,
I'm afraid this sounds like a good ‘ol fashioned reality check. I think it’s important to remember that almost no one is who they portray on social media one hundred percent of the time. Most of us only post the positive outcomes which paints a very narrow view of who people are really. I don’t trust anyone at face value, much less social media. I recommend connecting with people you have a history with that you love and trust. Perhaps then networking will become easier with a firm foundation to leap from. If someone is betraying you in this way, you every right to cut them off.
Hope this helps and you have found some relief since this post. 💕