Traumatic Experiences - Bullying Venting Space
Have you experienced bullying? You are certainly not alone. Many people have gone through bullying, and encountered this traumatic type of an experience.
This post is a supportive space, where you can vent about whatever you would like. You can share your thoughts, experiences, feelings, etc. in regards to bullying.
Thanks for sharing.
Hello, I don't usually like to say thing publicly but I decided to give it a try(?
I suffered from bullying and since I first looked for help with psychologists, each time I talked about it, it was like it wasn't big deal, like I was complaining about nothing, maybe I felt that way also because of my low self-steem but one of them even compared my situation to theirs saying that mine was no so bad so it was nothing. Some people have talked to me like that couldn't be a reason to be depressed and that made me feel even worse about trying to look for help, trying to help someone about it.
What I've been telling to myself a few months ago is that I have to right to feel pain or whatever I feel about it, and that my pain isn't less to others pain, every and each pain is different. It is still hard to actually believe it but I hope this can help someone if someone else has been through something similar.
@Imaginativa2930
I completely understand
@Imaginativa2930
Thank you for sharing your story here. I'm sorry to hear that your experience of being bullied, was downplayed, and diminished after you sought support from specialists. I think that your feelings of depression, and painful emotions, are completely validated in your situation. What you feel is relevant, and valid. From what I have learned, many people experience these types of negative emotions after going through experiences involving being bullied. There is a possibility that others cannot relate to, or understand your situation, so they are unable to provide you with necessary sympathy or a sense of understanding. I feel that it is important to reach out to others who have gone through the same thing, and/or positive, supportive, trustworthy people. I hope you can find the support which you are looking for.
Recently someone who had bully me online had tried to reached out to me again becasue i had block her but i can still see her on chat. Who had asked me why i had block her, mute her when she had attacked me on more than one occassion. She had cuss me out or she has threaten me after I had drop a subject that she had started on. She had threaten bodily harmed to other people yet she still allowed on. She has attacked me because I am straight. I been bullied here as well on more than one occassion.
The bullying has made me feel depressed, sad, lonely. I feel bad about myself because I had allowed it had happen.
@selfconfidentTangerine1778
I'm sorry to hear that you have gone through this experience involving being bullied online. It sounds like you took steps to protect yourself, by blocking that offending person, so you did what you could, in order to cope with the situation. It also sounds like you are experiencing feelings of being depressed, sad, and lonely as a result of your experiences. Please know that you are not alone in your situation of being bullied, and many individuals all around the world, have encountered mistreatment, as you have, including experiencing online bullying. I hope that you can find the support which you are seeking, here.
