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i’m stuck as a child =D

User Profile: kaydensdino
kaydensdino June 7th, 2021

i grew up too fast and i’m very immature because of it, help

Title edited by Asher, 6/10/21

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User Profile: cuteeeezombieeee
cuteeeezombieeee June 8th, 2021

@kaydensdino

I understand why you may feel that way heart Often, when we're brought up in neglectful environments, we are forced to learn to do a lot of things by ourselves. Yet, we're not given a proper childhood or allowed to mature at a normal rate. Don't be too hard on yourself, as none of that was anything within your control.

I hope you're in a better place now. Just give yourself time and be patient with all the difficult thoughts and feelings that may arise. *offers hugs and strength*

You're free to PM (personal message) me if you want to talk more about it. Alternatively, you could put out a general request or pm a listener from the browse listeners page. Feel free to participate in the forums to connect with others who may have had similar experiences.

Take care of yourself~Sierraheart

User Profile: shellofashell
shellofashell June 9th, 2021

@kaydensdino Hi. I wish I had something better or more useful to offer, but I just wanted to say that you're not alone with this. I get it.

User Profile: SensitiveBunny27
SensitiveBunny27 June 24th, 2021

I relate to you so much. I'm in the same position as you. We are not alone 😊

User Profile: amiableBlackberry92
amiableBlackberry92 July 18th, 2021

I totally get it, there's 2 sides to my maturity. On one side I'm adult, super responsible because I had to be to survive as a kid. Ppl used to say to me , your so mature for 12, but then there's the other side - very immature about 14 I'd say. It's because I was abused and neglected as a kid and that side stayed a young child. I didn't know until recently that this is the side of me predators prey on, the child inside. My abuse didn't end when I moved out at 18. So for many years I was so vulnerable to some really bad ppl/ situations. I'm so sorry you all can relate to this scenario. It's an awful way to be in this life. I am in therapy and trying to sort it all out. I have lots of stuff to get thru. You have my prayers 💜 ABB