What do you do?
Honestly what do you do when one of your friends are trying to figure out their gender identity, if they have an eating disorder, and feel as if theyre going to die alone? And what do you when you tell your mom about your depression and anxiety and all she says is she knows the real you and its all for show when really youve been hurting for three years, inside and out? Oh and lets not forget that same day when you had an anxiety attack because she kept yelling at you and you began to scratch yourself to the point where you draw blood and all she does is yell Sit up right, stop curling up and crying. God, Emily, cant you be more mature and less dramatic?!. Then later, threatens to take your phone away, the phone you use to get help by the way, if she sees any signs of self harm on your body. Which is so stupid and messed up because thats not going to help at all, just make things worse. And in the store she asks if you need anything and you say razors because your a girl who shaves her legs and she mocks you and asks if youre going to cut yourself and -laughs- then tries to hug you. What do you then? Because honestly Im so done with her and her family.
Oh wow, Im really sorry to hear all of that, Emily :( *hugs if you want them* that sounds really hard to deal with, especially as you feel that shes mocking you and hurting you. I understand you feel that shes not listening to you and making things worse, and so Im wondering if maybe she doesnt understand, or maybe shes scared and in denial that youre in pain. It can be difficult for a parent to accept that their daughter, their flesh and blood, is hurting badly.
So Im wondering if youve spoken to her about any of this, at a time when both of you were in a relaxed state of mind? About the self-harm when youre in pain, why you cry when you do, and/or how it hurts when she mocks you and her reactions. If not, I find having some informational articles from reputable sources to help explain and give to her to read for later can be helpful sometimes. Especially articles that relate to something along the lines of how to help your loved one and the dos and donts. Just a suggestion, feel free to change or dismiss it ❤️
I really am sorry that you have to deal with your mothers reactions on top of everything youre already going through. It can be very hard, but youre worth the fight. You can get through this. Youve been so brave opening up in the forums! ❤️ If you havent already and want to, maybe check out the self-help guides on this site? :)
I wish you all the best for the future, and remember were all here to help and support you on this journey. xx
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