Don't know what to do
How to be ourselves no matter what .... whatever awful opinions they say about us....even if we are told ...do what you want to do .... Can't help but be upset about their opinions..... For eg: my parents says I don't have it me to crack NEET (it's an country level exam for admission in university to study medicine (or you can say an undergraduate degree).... The exam is tough and competitive....to be honest...I know deep down in my heart that if I work hard I can definitely crack it....but when my parents says that...can't help doubt myself... after all they are my biological parents who knows me from my childhood.... I can't say I am an outstanding student but I can definitely say I am an excellent student... Actually to them I have never been a daughter that they wanted me to be....they wanted an obedient daughter who does what they wanted.....I hold different opinions...compare to them.... which they don't like....it not like that i am saying my opinions and choices are always right....they just want me to do things and think like them...
@appledog2006 bro, I'm sorry that this is happening to you right now. our parents suppressing us has almost become a tradition. they always demand things from us. But you know what, this is just a phase and when you learn to ignore it (the way our parents treat us), it becomes a weapon that you can use against anybody to shine. hope it helps <3
@lovingBeechwood6967
Thank you so much!
If you ask me, believing in yourself no matter what anyone says to you. From my personal experience, i have tried to fulfill my parents expectations but I disappointed them. Now they don't support me that much. When I told them I want to do a job, instead of supporting me they were like you will not get job easily. They are never positive and always say negative things to me. I also doubted myself before.I feel alone sometimes. I am becoming strong for myself.
