Heyyy
Hey, call me Music or Shivi for now, I'm just a teenage girl. Some things about me are that I'm a booknerd (romance)....I love music to the very bottom of my heart (i sing, write lyrics, and play violin)... I love drawing...I'm a taekwondo black belt...I do theatre and musical stuff, and....yeah...I get straight A's in school and love my friends.
Why I'm here:
I'm dealing with a lot of family problems and don't know if this is normal with families but I'm not comfortable with what's going on. I have been dealing with loneliness in my own home and I feel neglected. I don't feel "at home". I often fight with my parents because they never understand my point of view and make me feel worthless and like a failure and they think I treat them very disrespectfully, don't spend time with them or help around the house, and that I won't achieve anything in life since I don't live up to their expectations (studying and spending time hanging out and helping family.) This recent fight was a huge pileup of everything and they are completely ignoring me other than dropping me off to school and classes or giving me food. My mother especially hasn't said anything to me in about 7 days now and I am tired of trying to fix anything and sick of it. I guess I want a different point of view in all of this. I love my parents but I can't deal with all of this anymore, I'm tired.
Did I say too much for an intro??? I didn't even say everything yet...
@musicislife321
Hi Shivi, welcome to 7 cups. I'm IKEA by the way.
I'm glad you decided to join this community, and I can see you have various problems you want to sort out and face. I hope you'll be able to make lots of friends here. There are many listeners here and support rooms that you can talk to people or just simply vent.
On a personal note, I'm a teenager, and I play the violin as well. If you don't mind, I would like to be your friend.
I wish you a wonderful start, and to get all the support you want and need!
@yourlocalIKEA Thank you, ofc we can be friends
Hey, Shivi, it looks like we have a lot in common, I luv romance too. I also play an instrument [piano] and ofc, I luv music. I sing too. I luv drawing too, and I have a black belt in martial arts. I get straight a's too! Wanna be friends?
@Hansini7079 OFC :)
I have family problems too, and I think we can talk and help eachother out. What do you think?
Family problems can take a toll on you and even hinder your performance. It a actually shows how strong you are. You are doing great remember this too shall pass. You know there's a rule of love that goes like The midwife knows that when there is no pain, the way for the baby cannot be opened and the mother cannot give birth. Likewise, for a new self to be born, hardship is necessary. Just as clay needs to go through intense heat to become strong, Love can only be perfected in pain.
@musicislife321 Hey Music 🎶 looks like you have a similar problem like me. Though my family supporting but they can understand my feelings sometime or I can contribute to any decision of the family.
By the way, I also love music, it's even a part of my everyday life.
@musicislife321 Hey I’m new here and looking for friends I also love reading especially romance love music and theatre and play guitar, I’m sorry about your family troubles and would love to talk to you if you ever wanted to