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If you could go back in time and change in thing, what would it be?

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 6th, 2025

Only share what you feel comfortable with 💜🥰

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User Profile: BeingHuman90s
BeingHuman90s June 13th, 2025

There are many things we did and felt so bad. Most of us did wrong things. We learned from them. Grieved once already. .

I would rather let it be. Instead of charging it and then maybe at same place as now. I will let it be

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 13th, 2025

@BeingHuman90s let it be, what a serene thought, I like that 💜🥰

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User Profile: fearlessPenny5968
fearlessPenny5968 June 13th, 2025

I will change to don't be born

User Profile: fearlessPenny5968
fearlessPenny5968 June 13th, 2025

I will change to don't be born

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 14th, 2025

@fearlessPenny5968 i am sorry you feel this way and I hope that one day soon, you can see your worth and that you are meant to be here 💜🥰

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User Profile: ra3suu
ra3suu June 18th, 2025

If i could change one thing... Maybe not be born. Ik, its like so dramatic and very cringe but i wouldn't have to go through my problem if i didn't exist.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 18th, 2025

@ra3suu I don't think it's dramatic or cringe, but honest, when we struggle or experience bad things, surely we feel like it'd be easier not to be here, but at the same time, you wouldn't experience all the wonderful things life has to offer 💜🥰

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User Profile: WhimsicalWanderer12
WhimsicalWanderer12 June 18th, 2025

The right answer is nothing. But in my heart I feel like there are so many things I would change. My life wouldn’t look like it does now and for me, that would probably be better. 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 18th, 2025

@WhimsicalWanderer12 you are right, going back and over analysing things that are done, only leaves us stuck 💜🥰

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User Profile: Tonyk1988
Tonyk1988 June 18th, 2025

Everything I did from 13 to 29

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 18th, 2025

@Tonyk1988 I'm sorry if those years were not good for you, I hope things are better now 💜🥰

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User Profile: Gloria0923
Gloria0923 June 18th, 2025

@Amanda84 I would have managed my money better. I would have liked to take care of my credit.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 18th, 2025

@Gloria0923 I hear ya on that one 💜🥰

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User Profile: braindamag3
braindamag3 June 18th, 2025

I'd tell my younger self to stay away from self medicating. I barely remember all of high school 🥴😵‍💫

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 18th, 2025

@braindamag3 I'm truly sorry that your younger self was struggling so much 🙄 I hope you are better now, healing hugs and best wishes 💜🥰

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User Profile: braindamag3
braindamag3 June 19th, 2025

@Amanda84
from the age of 13 right till I was about 26, i smoked pot almost every day, it was the one thing that helped get by, mostly all by my self.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 19th, 2025

@braindamag3 I'm glad you got through it 💜

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User Profile: candacereighnnnnn
candacereighnnnnn June 18th, 2025

@Amanda84 I would choose to have told my parents about the things I was struggling with earlier. I now feel like it’s too late and they would think I am only telling them about my mental health struggles to get out of consequences for my own actions.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 18th, 2025

@candacereighnnnnn yes, I can see the dilemma you are in but I still think your parents would want to know, they can't support you, I'd they don't know 💜🥰

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User Profile: Mishka1599
Mishka1599 June 19th, 2025

I would have finished my degree while my children were still young.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 OP June 19th, 2025

@Mishka1599 being a mother and doing all you do is awesome, don't ever forget that 💜🥰

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User Profile: Mishka1599
Mishka1599 June 19th, 2025

Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot to me.

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