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I have challenges with my 5.5 years old son

User Profile: bluebahar
bluebahar August 14th, 2023

Hello,

I have many challenges with my son, he is 5.5 years old. He is very stubborn, always yelling, and very difficult to communicate with (I must say he has learned all of this from me, unfortunately). Now, I am really struggling and I see that our relationship is deteriorating day by day :-(. I really need some advice. I would be grateful for any guidance.

Thanks,

Bahar


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User Profile: patientSky1754
patientSky1754 August 15th, 2023

@bluebahar

It's super important to establish clear boundaries and expectations for your son. This will give him a sense of structure and consistency, helping him understand what behavior is acceptable and what's not. Another thing you could do is encourage positive communication. Help your son express his feelings and thoughts in a respectful way. Give him alternative ways to communicate his needs without resorting to yelling or throwing tantrums. And don't forget to lead by example! Show him how to communicate positively by doing it yourself.

Oh, and here's a cool trick! When your son displays good behavior or makes an effort to communicate effectively, make sure to acknowledge and reinforce it. Praise and reward him for his positive actions. This positive reinforcement will motivate him to keep up the good work and strengthen your bond at the same time. Building a stronger connection with your son also involves active listening. Show genuine interest in his thoughts and feelings, and make a conscious effort to listen attentively. Let him know that you genuinely care about what he has to say. This will make him feel heard and understood, which is important for a healthier relationship between you two.

If things continue to be tough or even worsen, it might be worth considering seeking professional help. A child psychologist or family therapist can provide personalized strategies and support tailored to your specific situation.

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User Profile: bluebahar
bluebahar OP August 16th, 2023

@patientSky1754 thank you for your reply. This is very helpful.

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