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User Profile: lisbetholive
lisbetholive March 17th, 2023

I only recently realised that I'm bisexual. I'm also attracted to my female best friend who is transitioning to male. I haven't told anyone yet and my loved ones are mostly abroad where I won't get to see them for the next year or two.

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User Profile: MidwesternCalmSeeker
MidwesternCalmSeeker March 18th, 2023

@historyfanatic

Sounds like you have a lot of strong feelings to think through. Is your best friend someone that you trust enough to share your feelings? Maybe not with the intent to start a relationship, but more to explore the feelings themselves. That may help give you some insight as you move forward. I know there are a lot of listeners with lived experience here on 7 Cups that can relate to this really well!

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User Profile: lisbetholive
lisbetholive OP March 21st, 2023

@MidwesternCalmSeeker Thanks! I'm planning to come out to my friend when we meet again in the next few weeks. Neither of us has really spoken about our own sexuality/gender identity much so I'm hoping to connect there, as friends.

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User Profile: Know1Knows
Know1Knows March 21st, 2023

@historyfanatic

I am a transgender bisexual (well, still questioning my sexuality) I think it’s great you’ve come up with the conclusion your bi! Congrats and hope when you come out it’s a happy outcome.

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User Profile: lisbetholive
lisbetholive OP March 23rd, 2023

@Know1Knows

Thanks! I hope your own journey treats you well too. Actually now I've been questioning again whether I'm pan or bi... Hmm.

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User Profile: Phylomena
Phylomena March 25th, 2023

What is pansexual?

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@Phylomena

I believe it is when you are attracted to people regardless of what their gender is, please correct me if I'm wrong!

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User Profile: Retroprogressive0402
Retroprogressive0402 March 21st, 2023

I am also bi sexual, some don't realize how confusing it really is. You may find romantic connections pretty much everywhere you go. I am attracted to my wife's ex boyfriend that she is currently cheating on me with. He seems to like me but he's not bi. It can be very confusing and people always want to sway us in their way. Bi sexuality is it's own way, you don't need to be swayed


User Profile: thechildistheforce
thechildistheforce March 21st, 2023

Hey!!! I'm so happy for you I'm bisexual too and om 13 you seem lick a nice cool person, I'm sorry you will not be able to your loved ones for then next year or two.🙁 if you want we can be friends!












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User Profile: lisbetholive
lisbetholive OP March 23rd, 2023

@thechildistheforce Hey! Thanks a lot! Yay

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User Profile: UntoldEdge
UntoldEdge March 25th, 2023

@lisbetholive yea that sounds like a lot to take in. I still don't know for sure what I am.

User Profile: generouscat0001
generouscat0001 March 25th, 2023

I'm bi also.in the closet for the most part.close friends know.. im I'm het marriage. I've know I was bi since I was 17..hub knew before we got married...its not easy at all...I feel torn along of timrs