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User Profile: xXKasFindlay24Xx
xXKasFindlay24Xx November 8th, 2023

I just don’t get why it’s okay for people to judge me for who I am?


why am I always meeting people that are very judgmental?


i just don’t get it anymore, like I’m completely lost and confused.

I just feel like I’m going to get old and have no friends at all in life.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 8th, 2023

@xXKasFindlay24Xx hi there I'm lola ❤ welcome to cups ❤ No one will judge you here🤗 you are free to be yourself here with us. Making friends irl a lot of people struggle with unfortunately. But you know what there are more good people out there than there is bad, so don't give up ok? Gives you a giant tiny hug ❤

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User Profile: xXKasFindlay24Xx
xXKasFindlay24Xx OP November 8th, 2023

Aww thank you so much, some days I do want to give up because I’m always getting judged, now I’m just afraid of opening up to people and when I try to open up, I get uncomfortable and scared so now I feel like I’m always the problem to everything.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 9th, 2023

@xXKasFindlay24Xx awww honey, I'm so sorry that people have made you feel this way😞 it's very sad. But please know this is your safe place where you can open up. Hopefully in time you can learn to trust people again ❤ hugs you tightly ❤ this is a great start I'm so glad you found this site ❤ hugs you again

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User Profile: xXKasFindlay24Xx
xXKasFindlay24Xx OP November 9th, 2023

Thank u so much for all the hugs, I really did needed someone to talk to, when I started using this app I wasn’t sure if anyone would talk to me or help me but thank u so much @Tinywhisper11.

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User Profile: Soziophob219
Soziophob219 November 9th, 2023

@xXKasFindlay24XxIn general, the world has been rotten for a long time. I sincerely sympathize with you and all those who have suffered from a judgmental society.


The best option is to find a like-minded person and stop listening to such people who dare to judge you for some thing. I think that you can express all your problems here, because there are no people here who will condemn you for your problems, actions, and so on) In short, the problem is with them, not you. It's such a motivation to stop listening to them (Condemning People) Be yourself, try to get out of this feeling of fear of judgment, even though it's all around. I understand how difficult this path is, because I experienced the same thing, only with social phobia. As a result, I was able to overcome social phobia at least a little and got rid of the fear of judgment by 10%😇 And that's why I'm sure you'll succeed if you try, and you can get a big push from your friend or friends. They are just a living motivation and a desire to fight problems, If they are Iof course, they are good friends :D

// I apologize for the very crooked English and Bad support 💔

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User Profile: xXKasFindlay24Xx
xXKasFindlay24Xx OP November 9th, 2023

It’s very hard to find someone that’s like-minded person, I have completely blocked out people that are judgmental and disrespectful but like I said it very hard to find someone that’s honest, loyal, respectful, kind, mindful, respect for who who I am and like-minded.

un I have no friends that will give me a push or help me because they left me or they are fake friends that are judgmental.

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