I need help guys
Hi
I'm new here. I have no idea what I'm doing, I just need help. Idk if I'm gay or bi or straight or what. I think I have ADHD but idk. I think I really like a girl. I don't know. Im unmotivated and procrastinate. I'm failing spanish rn. I just need help. Thanks. :(
@inventiveChestnut7359
hi i am gay and i am 15 years old and i will be your friend my email is alan.haynes2@education.nsw.gov.au
@alanhaynes It's great to reach out for connections, but please don't share your personal contact information. This is a public space and it's for your own safety.
@inventiveChestnut7359 I see you are struggling... what do you think would help you identify your feelings better? What kind of help would you like? ☺️
Hey! I completely understand about the sexuality thing, I don’t know what I am either, and I remember constantly stressing about it. My personal advice is not to worry about it (guessing you’re in highschool) you’re young and don’t need to think about labels. Date whoever you’re interested in! And for Spanish consider a tutor? Talk to the people around you who seem to understand the topic! I have social anxiety so I can get why it might be a little uncomfortable to do that😭 but whatever gets the grades up🤞
@inventiveChestnut7359 I know it's difficult when you're struggling with these things. I'll try to address the various points. If you need more help, want to chat or anything else... feel free to message me (I'm one of the listeners here), reach out to another listener, hang in the chat rooms, or continue making forum posts.
As far as bi or straight goes, it's not as black and white as it used to be. Don't worry about labels, follow your heart. Be open to love, like, or passion from anyone and only when in those situations can you really know if you are into girls, guys, or anyone.
There's lots of info out there on ADHD. You may want to reach out to your doctor if you feel it's impacting your daily life. Read up on it and learn about all the different ways to cope and celebrate it. It's not something to be ashamed of these days.
Procrastination and having a hard time getting motivated I really resonate with. You may find that having a board of your desires or ultimate goals can help. I keep my desktop background as the one place I want to visit. Eventually, I'll get there.
For Spanish, reach out to the teacher. They usually really love helping students and can also point you to other resources to help get your grades up. If they see you're putting in the effort, a lot of times they will work with you more.