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Loneliness and conversations with the wrong people

User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 October 6th, 2024

When you don't have much going for you in life, and your lonely all the time, you get kinda desperate.  That is what happens to me and often times I find myself talking to whoever will talk back to me, and often times those are not good conversations. 

As I write this, I'm also thinking about those busy people that have too many people to talk to.  They don't have time to answer all of their emails.  It is hard for me to wrap my brain around it.  Often times I feel like a loser.  Because society doesn't pay attention to me because I'm not dong enough.  I don't have a bunch of talents.  And I'm not that interested in the things I'm interested in.  When you got almost no people in your life, then what is the point of having interests that you can't share with anyone.

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User Profile: determinedHuman9898
determinedHuman9898 October 24th, 2024

Hey! It’s actually the other way around. When you have things to do you will get people who like similar things as you. Don’t lose hope. Find something that you like and develop interest in it voluntarily. You will eventually find someone to share it with.


xoxo

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User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 OP October 25th, 2024

@determinedHuman9898  I do have things that I like to do, but there is nobody that will enjoy it with me.  I have tried for many years!

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User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 OP October 25th, 2024

@tryingtosurvive2024  I feel like I need to clarify something.  I have interests in many different things.  But I have nobody to share those interests with!  I can't say that enough.  Look I've been alive for 45 years, and I have been online 22 of those years.  I don't find people that will share my interests with me.  Not in a way that I could hang out with them and do those interests.

User Profile: redStrawberries2344
redStrawberries2344 October 30th, 2024

@tryingtosurvive2024 

Hey. My name is Cassie I am new here, looking for friends I can talk to. If you are interested we can chat. 

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User Profile: tryingtosurvive2024
tryingtosurvive2024 OP October 31st, 2024

@redStrawberries2344  Nice to meet you Cassie.  Welcome to 7Cups!

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