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User Profile: IceQueen4140
IceQueen4140 November 4th, 2023

Hey everyone, I'm Victoria, new to the platform. I would love to meet new people that are going through either the same thing or similar situations and helping each other out by communicating. I'm divorced, have a 10 year old Autistic daughter, I'm dating a guy I went to high school with (graduated in 2008).

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User Profile: HachiBee
HachiBee November 5th, 2023

@IceQueen4140

Hii theree Victoria, it's nice to meet you. I don't have experiences with what you're going through, but I'd like to welcome you to our little corner of the internet. Meeting new people who can relate to your experiences and provide support is a great way to navigate life's twists and turns. I hope you have a wonderful time here 💜

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User Profile: IceQueen4140
IceQueen4140 OP November 5th, 2023

Thank you @HachiBee!!! I've been divorced since October of 2022 and it hasn't been an easy journey for myself. I supported my husband (now ex-husband) throughout his military journey for 6 years (Army national guard and marine corps) only to get abused physically, mentally and emotionally and cheated on in California. I've been dealing with a lot of anxiety (all my life) and depression (on and off since my daughter was born in 2013). I've pretty much raised my daughter on my own for the majority of her life and it wore me down. If I asked my parents for help, they would refuse and tell me to do it myself. I'll admit I don't have a strong relationship with my family, they treated me like an enemy since i was 18 all because I wanted to do my own thing. They expected me to be under their roof (over 18) following their rules. I'm known as a lonewolf because I'm better off alone. I'm sorry for the long post, had to get it out there!

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User Profile: HachiBee
HachiBee November 5th, 2023

@IceQueen4140

No worries at all. You can share as much as you want here.

And I'm so sorry you've gone through all that, you don't deserve to be treated like that. I can only imagine the emotional toll of enduring all of that physically and emotionally. It must have been overwhelming.

Raising your daughter independently, despite the lack of support from your family, showcases your resilience and determination. It's really tough when the people who are supposed to be your support system fail to understand your struggles and turn away when you need them the most.

Your strength in facing these challenges head-on is commendable. Expressing your feelings here is a vital step, and I hope that sharing your story provides some relief.

You're not alone in this journey, you've got a whole community here to support you through all this. Your strength and determination are evident, and I hope that you find the peace you deserve 💜

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User Profile: charmingJet93
charmingJet93 November 5th, 2023

@IceQueen4140 Hi there i can relate to what your going through and everything i can def be there for you, shoot me a message and we can talk it out and everything

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User Profile: IceQueen4140
IceQueen4140 OP November 6th, 2023

Thank you so much @charmingJet93! I will definitely reach out to you!

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 November 5th, 2023

@IceQueen4140 hii I'm lola ❤ nice to meet you queen victoria! I'm sorry to hear about your divorce, but I hope your happy in your new relationship🤗 and a 10 year old child, what a great blessing ❤❤ welcome to cups ❤❤hugs you

User Profile: AviHere12
AviHere12 November 6th, 2023

@IceQueen4140

Hi I have nothing to say but welcome

User Profile: FriendlyAnju777
FriendlyAnju777 November 6th, 2023

@IceQueen4140

Welcome to 7cups you presence makes differenc e to every life

User Profile: ListenerBry
ListenerBry November 6th, 2023

Hi Victoria! It's nice to meet you! I hope you find this place as amazing as I have. :)