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Hey everyone new here looking forward to growing here. Thanks for having me.
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@mhb710 Hey! It is indeed a pleasure to see you here. Let me take this moment to give you a warm welcome to the community. I'm really happy you're here. 💓
@GentleHealingInitiative thank you for the support and energy much needed!
welcome homie! how are ya feeling today!?
@raymond1203 been rough couple days hoping for better tomorrow. Thanks for the energy and support
absolutely not a problem. i’m def here if you’d like to talk about what’s bothering you. i’m sure if you try to remain positive and make good choices, the outcome will be exactly what you’re looking for. keep doing what you’re doing and you’ll be great 🙂
@raymond1203 thank you that's a very positive outlook lol I'm in need of that I just have been finding it hard to be positive anymore. To be a bit more specific I'm trying to navigate a separation from my wife we were together 12 years and I sometimes think it's impossible to move forward positively after being with someone that long. It's a completely different world out there after that amount of time
wow i am actually going threw almost the same thing. in march me and my ex broke up. we were together for 10 years. it has been so hard to explain how difficult it’s been. i’ve only recently started to feel like myself again but that’s still day to day. some days im good and some days im really sad.
you’re so right it’s a much different world than it was 10-15 years ago. ngl i hated it at first. it took alllot of getting used to but things now do have the potential to be the best ever. we just gotta shake the sadness and take care of ourselves ya know.
@raymond1203 sorry to hear that man I understand. Glad your starting to feel better gives me some hope even though me and my I don't even call her my ex yet lol ***. But we just set ourselves way back we just spent a few days together like nothing happened and man it's a set back I feel like it's all brand new again we split up end of August but have been feeling it sense July and we had just got back together to rekindle end of last summer after our first breakup some months before that my birthday in April
do you feel like yous got hope and can get back to a good place?
im trying to work on putting myself out there more to meet new people. but im rly not looking forward to dating.
@raymond1203 I was starting to think I needed to atleast make a new female frien I'm lonely the ex has been on a ignoring me phase so we only speak if it's important right now. But anyways I thought I maybe wanted that thought it was the right thing to do was atleast discuss the idea with my ex she is my wife still but that didn't go well me and the ex just ended up hanging out pretending for a few days and now I'm like dazed and confused and the last thing I want to do is try to meet anyone, definitely don't want to date I think I'm far from that especially after everything recently
yea that’s really difficult stuff sorry to hear that. dating is for sure messy. i tried the apps and it was horrible lol im sure people have great luck with it but i did not lol idk the details but i rly hope you two can find a way to heal and get past this. it could make you both stronger and better.
@raymond1203 ya I agree I'm open and willing to do whatever she's not and she's angry and hurt which isn't goodshe lash out and I'm doing my best to be better and not hurt anyone. It's alot
i’m sorry bud. i def wanna help ya out. i don’t wanna give ya dumb bulls.hit advice lol idk the situation idw assume anything. but i’m def here to listen if ya need to vent it out
@raymond1203 did you and your wife remain friends after or have contact at all?
@mhb710 Thank you for being here! I hope we can connect and chat about whatever is on your mind!
@kindShell9449. Hey thanks for the reply, feels good to be here even though this journey is just beginning...still very difficult. It's been a tough couple days over here so I'm having a hard time stringing g together sentences. Hoping for a better day tomorrow. Seriously though thank you for the energy and support!
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@mhb710 welcome!! it's amazing to have you here! 7cups it's an absolute amazing place and such a comfort app, if you ever need message me or the other amazing listeners out here! lots of love 💜
