So alone
Anyone else always feel like they are so alone? Like I have friends and stuff but that's it! I want a boyfriend and people who actually care!! Anyone else feel like this.. no.. just me?
@Hannahisachristian most times I feel like that especially with working from home it comes with less human interaction.
Hannahisachristian,
With a name like that - you should NEVER be alone.
However, I understand the emptiness that often comes with being alone. I also can understand your desire for a boyfriend .. and friends to talk to. I haven't met many people here at 7 cups - but I can tell you that we are all connected by a single thread - we care about each other. We couldn't do this if we didn't. That being said, I hope you will feel good about talking with any of us .. at anytime. That way, neither you ... or us ... will be alone. :)
I didn't grow up with any type of support network, I had my Mom and that's basically it until I left the house. My Mom was always exhausted from work, and not a great communicator in her our right. I understand where you're coming from and as much as it's true that well being starts with yourself and being comfortable here and the way you are.... It's also essential to be able to show vulnerability and express your grief and stress. That's a reason I really like this app so far.
We all have needs that we want to have met. There's a happy medium somewhere between this and stoicism.
@Hannahisachristian I'm married and I feel alone. I have friends but I still feel alone. My fur babies were my joy, and now that they are gone I am truly alone. I'm trying to bring myself out of this sad period, but it is difficult.
@Hannahisachristian HEllo c:
@Hannahisachristian here x3
@Hannahisachristian hi, hanna , i really understand you, y have an amazing family, and friends to, and that always sheers me up. but i feel i need someone that really connects with me, to understang what im really feeling and trying to say.
how often you feel this.?
Hey Iean I'm guess we can have side conversations if you want?
@Hannahisachristian I completely understand. However, sometimes I don’t think relationships can fix that because I feel so alone at times even in my relationship. I’m learning that you have to find it within you to be able to to do that. I definitely currently am even with a boyfriend. Some might want to say that it’s his fault but I feel like I’ve always had this issue. And It’s displaying onto him where I’ve grown dependant.
look a puppy , smile <3