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Trouble with my Feelings

User Profile: tidyRaspberries7098
tidyRaspberries7098 August 11th, 2023

Hi guys.

I'm having trouble with my feelings. I feel like something is off between my and my girlfriend, and I want to spend more time alone than with her. I do understand that sometimes wanting to have time alone is healthy, but it is too much now. So, I've come to the conclusion that my feelings are probably off.

I also find others much more attractive than they should be. I want to fix my feelings so that they return to normal, to the time when we were so happy together. I just don't know how.

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User Profile: idkanametoput
idkanametoput August 12th, 2023

@tidyRaspberries7098

i understand how your feelings can be confusing - but its exactly that, confused. maybe taking a bit of time alone to really think things through and understand what you really want right now.

also side note - finding others attractive whilst others in a relationship isn't necessarily toxic, however i do agree that if you're thinking others are more attractive, then your feelings may be starting to fade - and that's completely fine!