help me pls as a newbie
my boyfriend told me his ex anf office crush is more beautiful than me.. we are about to get married this december. it crushed my self confidence and i dont know if i just settle to the fact that he is choosing me. In athe past before me he is a cheater and then always talks to this ex whom he find beautiful than me. although he did not talked to her during our relationship... my mother said its normal but i am just so scared to enter marriage knowing that he finds her attractive than me... please help what do you guys think
RUN Sis, I said RUN for your life. Or else your legs might be too weak to run later. And you end up dying terribly in silence while he flourishes. Gosh, what kind of man is that!!!. Guess your Mom doesn't understand what's happening. Run Sis Run and don't look back. Take care.
I also think that communication here is key. Sometimes what we rhink people said is not what they meant. And If it was, then it will be a clearer sign. It sounda like it dis really distress you to hear that he find someone else more attractive and, even if he believes that, he would probably reassure you that it was a passing comment. if he doesn't, then it would be more a sign for me that hurting me doesn't bother him. I would not go so far as saying leave him, you chose that man as well as hw chose you, so I would give him the benefit of a doubt, but I would be more observant of hia emotional intelligence, not just his faithfulness.
@Secureme1111 Hmmm, once a cheater always a cheater (IMHO). Second, why does he put you down saying other people are more beautiful than you? I lived with a jerk like that for a long time. It broke me when he'd say things like, "I have to gussy you up more so you fit in with these moms" or "Get a clue why I don't take you to .... (insert place). Living with him was a rollercoaster ride. His words would tear out my heart or punch the wind out of my stomach. You are a princess and deserve so much better, remember that!
