what societal standards changes life.... maybe in good or bad way!

in course of life our heart and mind make us a doll to make us fit in the society.... what are the things in your country it maybe law or some standards of society or it may be anything which forced you to hate this society....it maybe ridiculous too.... but for survival sake you are forced to adopt that too... lets hear from you people too...

i am from I...and basically here arranged marriages are soo common... and women didn't fear ghost but they fear being and un successful in career and work for a man and family of him who treat her like worthless.... so as a women we have to study a lot and lot and get degree have to go jobs...just to avoid this marriage things.... i just hate this... we should earn to say no to a marriage....its mu basic right to tell no to anything...but many times here women are pushed in to a situation where they cant say no to any decision their parents make in point of career and marriage topis.... yeah men suffer the same but i think its too dominating on women... i was now in professional course a tough one to say but if there is no concept of this and all...i should have bought a farmland and do cultivation to feed my fam and have a happiest life... what a normal girl will crave for... an emotional support... a cat can give that to me.... and my girl best friend... and my family... that's all i need...
marrying reproducing is one of the purpose.... not the whole purpose of human life.... if we say that they say its against cultural aspect....what... a culture is more important than peace of mind... you must be joking! haha