Breaking the ICE

i go to this place called Bold Bean to drink coffee. theres this girl amy who is a barista whos acting funny toward me. she seems lke she likes me cause she bites her lip while talking to me and her eyes point my direction when shes talking to other ppl. however, when we talk sometimes she says odd things to me like: "im taken no im single me and my ex bf broke up months ago but hes hotter than u and blonde look him on social media [and provides his name]; "why did you tell me 'do you think i can get a coffee?' you didnt say please im guessing you havent slept with many women recently given the asshole you are". she also says thngs like "i can be a bitch to men but i like men who can tame me". she also casually pointed out that some family member molested her as a kid. she has a few tattoos and i looked her up on social media and she doesnt have a huge following. how can u best explain her to me?