What am I doing wrong?
Listeners ghost me after a few messages (2, 3 max). No good bye or anything. What am I doing wrong? Am I too old for this site?
How old are you?
@mirabelmoi 44
Oh and I forgot to say I am not talking about super sensitive topics! I am talking just about stress, anxious, depressed with work, life, bills, etc
No one is too hold but not all listeners feel mature enough to handle certain things, it has nothing to do with you.
Some of those involved in sharing circle are curt and irritating as well. We can't expect everyone to be nice. Personally I just brush it off and move on. Don't let it get to you.
I’m really sorry to hear that your experience with 7Cups has been like this, and you should try not to blame yourself for this because it’s not a matter of being ‘too old.’ Listeners should always aim to let you know how long they’ll be available, and give you a heads up if they will need to be leaving soon. I can imagine that them vanishing without a goodbye after barely any conversation would be incredibly disheartening and upsetting. Best of luck in your 7Cups journey, I hope you manage to find some listeners who can properly support you :)
I am soo glad I found this question! I was feeling like people ghost me, too! I would start chat and after few minutes it suddenly asks me to do review then if I it done it- it goes back to chat but person is gone! I am doing this off my iPhone 7. So I was trying to figure out, if I am hitting some key- that ends the conversation and is asking me to review the person???? Because then the listener probably thinks I am rude and just stopped in the middle! So I try going back on and say hello hello are you there?? Then I give up and say ok I guess you are gone now? And I leave! If anyone knows-let me know!! I am not trying to rudely end a chat! I always try to say goodbye and thank you!!
Hey there! I only recently started using the app, and have only had conversations with maybe 2 listeners, but I'd like to tell you something I discovered during those conversations, if you'll let me. The notification you receive asking for a review automatically appears after you exchange a certain number of replies, regardless of who the listener is or what their ratings and reviews are before your conversation. Finding that pop up does not end your chat, and it isn’t necessary to review that listener right away, either. What I wound up doing is waiting until my conversation ended to give my review, by exiting out of the pop up and moving on with the conversation. It's also good to know that depending on the listener, they aren't trying to actively ghost you. One of the two listeners I had didn't reply for awhile, and it turns out that they were actually hunting for a link to a specific resource that they felt would be helpful to me and my journey. Just be patient and a pinch persistent, and you'll eventually find the right people to hear you out.