He said he might have lost feelings
Hello, so at the moment I am home with Covid and I haven’t seen my boyfriend in over two weeks. He’s been acting a bit weird lately (doesn’t seem excited to be on the phone or tells me he’s too tired to talk to me). I asked him multiple times what was wrong because it was bothering me that he was acting like this. He then proceeded to tell me that he feels like he might have lost feelings for me. He says he’s felt like this for a few months he just didn’t want to say it because he still wants to be with me. I don’t know how to take this. I have really bad anxiety already and this just makes me what to ask him a million questions about why he would feel like that.
what do I do? How am I suppose to react to this? Do I keep going in the relationship even though I could very well be setting myself up for failure? I don’t know how to feel.
@sensitivekailee01671
I hope you feel better soon. It's a difficult one really, the most important thing is to focus on your recovery and loved ones should be supportive of you regardless and then perhaps make a decision after. I've had a similar dilemma before, I guess our soul knows the answers, but sometimes it takes some time to feel clear on next steps, sometimes experiences reveal the true nature of people and the next steps.
@sensitivekailee0167 I must be perfectly blunt. We cannot make a person love us. What they feel is what they feel. Feelings cannot be forced or learned. I am not at all discounting how hard this is to hear someone say, I know exactly how hard it is to hear, it was said to me one time and I will never forget how it felt, I still relive it after many years.
@sensitivekailee0167 please remember one important thing, You do not want someone that doesn't want you. It is not fair to you.
