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Confused as heck

User Profile: independentSpring2848
independentSpring2848 September 26th, 2021

I just wanted t know a way to be okay with being absolutely alone.... emotionally....like no association whatsoever... because everyone seems so fake and selfish..i feel detached from everyone...sometimes I feel like I am becoming fake myself...I just want to be at peace with being in no one's company...anyone knows?

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User Profile: sweetAngel6292
sweetAngel6292 September 26th, 2021

the best advice i can give is finding things that you love doing alone... whether it’s reading a book, dancing, journaling... if you have fun and feel content in your own presence, you won’t feel the need to be around others. another piece of advice would be to make small goals for yourself and constantly strive towards them. the process of achieving these goals does not include the presence of these fake friends and by working towards something, your mind will be preoccupied and not distracted by thoughts of loneliness. 🤍

User Profile: independentSpring2848
independentSpring2848 OP September 26th, 2021

Thank you...I appreciate your suggestion❤️

User Profile: MonkeyBananaButter4830
MonkeyBananaButter4830 October 26th, 2021

I love the stoics you can listen to them before bed on YouTube they quote from them.


I think for us loners the key to never being lonely is to see every moment that is before us as a friend. Whether it’s just sky or a squirrel or a person it’s all the friend. Nature made everything so I trust in nature so everything is a friend.


Good or bad people are the friend when we trust in everything we create trust. Of course boundaries are necessary if we have a friend who is a tiger lol