Hello :)
My name's Rosie. I haven't really had much luck from 1 on 1 listeners, so I hope this is different :)
I've very recently had a falling out with someone who I considered to be one of my closest friends. It's a long story, but to put it shortly, I found out that she's thought that I'm wierd and creepy because of some subjects I like talking about, and I've learned that she is not a very good person overall. We got everything off our chest and agreed to go our separate ways, but we didn't really end things on good terns.
I know it's not my fault this happened. It's her that planned this big, elaborate scheme just so she could cut a few of her "friends" out of her life, and I'm glad that that kind of person no longer has anything to do with me. But certain words were said, and I feel hurt that someone I thought was a good friend would think that of me, and overall I feel bad about this whole situation.
I don't have depression or anything as serious as a lot of the people here. But if you'd still stay to give me a bit of comfort, that'd mean a lot to me right now :)
@onlyrosies107
Hello Rosies107, I am so sorry that your girlfriend betrayed you by making accusations about you and saying things that are hurtful. You know I wish we could read into the minds of others just to see if they are true and real, but we can't unfortunately. All we have is what they say and sometimes that is just a lie. I know this is not going to help you feel better about this but just know this relationship may not have been meant to be. I am just sorry that you got your emotional ties wrapped up in her which makes the pain of this loss so hard. Maybe better to have found out now rather than later. I am also sorry that the break-up became so volatile.
You hang in there and I believe you will find someone who is right for you. Good luck on this journey and just try to see this as another stepping stone to the next adventure in life. Take care and hope the depression lifts its ugly head off of you. Meanwhile be kind to your self😊
@onlyrosies107
Have you tried the 7Cups chat rooms ?
I am extending an invitation to the 7Cups Sharing Circle chat room.