Hi i guess?
Might aswell just introduce myself im wanderer and to be honest I don't even want to be here im only here to make the people in my life happy, they say i need help i know i need it i just don't want help
@wanderer239 welcome :)
Nobody can force you to share what you don't want to but it's nice that you are taking this step - sounds very considerate to me.... I wish some people I knew need help would do the same to please me.
We have a lot of resistance in ourselves - it's really great that you can recognise your own hesitation. That's shows you have awareness.
Hope you find some support here in whatever you wish when you are ready for it.
Take care
I would share my problems but i just feel as if they're all small things and when i try to tell people how im feeling i can never think of any of my problems i feel like shit all the time and i don't really have a reason to feel like shit i hate telling people about my problems because i hate people worrying about me especially when I've already made my mind up about my own life
@wanderer239 feeling like shit all the time is quite definitely a problem in my opinion.
I too keep saying I have no reason to feel so awful and have such dark thoughts... Even if I have suffered from major depressive disorder for over 20years... I still believe that harsh inner critic despite my experience. So at these times I realise I need to reach out again or more often. Thankfully I found a lovely therapist who can speak back to my voices and show ne that it's OK not to be OK.
If you ever wish to share your thoughts or what you ve made up your mind about I don't think anyone here will dismiss it. Well done for trying even if you didn't feel like it! That's admirable.
If you want to have one to one chats you can browse the listeners (they are not therapists but volunteers) and if you want to continue sharing here feel free.
On 7cups it helps to tag the person if you want someone specific to see it. I'm here if you wish to share but I'm not a listener. I only joined last month in the grips of a horrible depression relapse and many a dark thought.
@wanderer239 hey i really hope whatever you're feeling may get better soon, i feel sometimes you can just say things without having any second thoughts. I've been in that situation when i didn't knew what exactly to feel . We are all here for you