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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence August 21st, 2017

Hello everyone! Glad you joined! Say hello and introduce yourself to the community here!

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User Profile: StayingaliveuntilIfeelalive
StayingaliveuntilIfeelalive August 21st, 2017

I have been struggling most of my life with trying to figure out the true meaning of life, wanting to form a spiritual bond with true Christian's but seeming to run into pseudo Christians endlessly. Trying to be kind, gentle and good but having people being cruel, taking advantage, or treating kindness as a weakness. Watching people spend excessive amount of money, time, energy on trying to keep their outside self youthful or beautiful while their inside self rots with self-absorption, pettiness, jealousy, apathy, cruelty, hatefulness, selfishness, etc., etc. I'm sick of aging equaling becoming useless, unwanted, ignored, an embarrassment rather than equating it as a valuable asset. Knowing that there are people with excessive wealth in this world who goldplate their cars, spend thousands of dollars on one outfit yet burned in my mind is the hand of a child dying of starvation being held by a caregiver, that small little hand an arrow in my heart. The great inequality where death from lack of food or water is a daily event to women who spend thousands of dollars getting fat injections in their butts to make them bigger. What the hell is going on? Why do we seem to be growing into a society where wealth and social status outweighs the goodness of giving, of sharing, of loving not just our families but our brothers and sisters of the earth, of practicing the Golden Rule, of comforting.........Well, what an intro, I guess you can tell I'm depressed, that the last 10 years of my life have been the hardest, that I am 66 years old and my life is more screwed up than it ever has been. But, wait, is this all bad or is it simply steps I must take to learn the truth, to become closer to God, to accept this truth and somehow in my small way change it? I do not know yet but am hoping that this angst is a way to somehow make me a better person and maybe other people. Sorry for the tirade but it was something I felt I needed to say.

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User Profile: MinaCup
MinaCup August 21st, 2017

@StayingaliveuntilIfeelalive I am sorry for what you are going through. And it is good to let it out... typing or writing can really help unleash the negative emotions bottled inside. Sadly it is hard to manage what others do or what happens to them. The world is quite strange. I come from a fairly rural area, but have moved to a city 5 years ago. It never ceases to surprise me how "wasteful" or "unhappy" my peers are on this side of the world.

What I did learn though is, you do you. You do what you could. In this world, it may be important to know your limits, what people are deserving of our kindness and good treatment, and not let others take advantage of us. That way we can still help those who really need our aid and not be affected by all the meanie beanies. You seem like a very kind person, wanting to do good. I wish you well.

User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP August 21st, 2017

@StayingaliveuntilIfeelalive

Welcome aboard and thanks for sharing.

Wish you to find here the support you are looking for.

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User Profile: MinaCup
MinaCup August 21st, 2017

Hello everyone, I am Mina. Joined a few days ago. Glad to find a space to talk : )

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP August 21st, 2017

@MinaCup

Hello there, welcome in this friendly community

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User Profile: eisan
eisan August 21st, 2017

Hello everyone here. I just joined today because of reasons. I never thought I would join this kind of site but here I am. I felt depressed and lonely for few months before but it got better eventually.Now I'm afraid it's coming back and I want to prevent that so I told myself to do something. That if I have noone to talk to irl, at least find someone online. Well, It was always easier for me to talk to strangers rather than my family/friends so my main purpose is to talk to people with similar problems and hear them out too. Also hope to find some motivation here :)

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP August 21st, 2017

@eisan

Welcome and best wishes for everything !

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User Profile: Hopeless104
Hopeless104 August 21st, 2017

Hi everyone.. i have decided to join because i want to express everything that i feel and share my sentiments without anyone judging me.

User Profile: Hopeless104
Hopeless104 August 21st, 2017

I am currently working with the job that i'm not passionate and not quite close to the course that i graduated in. But i have no choice because it was not my decision to make..

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence OP August 21st, 2017

@Hopeless104

Hi there! Glad you joined!

Wish you to find the support you are looking for

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