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User Profile: calmSoul60
calmSoul60 September 5th, 2017

Hello,

I didn't ever think I will reach this point but I guess I'm here. I'm calling it quits. I came to conclusion that I'm not fit as a listener and haven't been helping as I heared. How do I quit? Should I just not log on? Or is there is a way to delete my account?

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September 5th, 2017

@calmSoul60

I'm a bit late so I don't know if you still need this, but have you tried going here? - https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerSupportampFeedback_149/ (I can't really help you beyond that, as it's for Listeners only)

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User Profile: calmSoul60
calmSoul60 OP September 7th, 2017

@MonoTrouble

Thank you for your help, you have done enough ☺

Yes I visited the link you provided and was shocked I haven't seen all of 7cups form😐

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September 7th, 2017

@calmSoul60

You're welcome smiley. How are you feeling these days?

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User Profile: calmSoul60
calmSoul60 OP September 7th, 2017

@MonoTrouble

I'm doing fine. I will be back soon to take on my job as a listener.

This time I won't allow what happened to happen again.

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September 7th, 2017

@calmSoul60

Good to see you're feeling better than when you started this thread. I hope listening goes better for you so you won't end up like this again anytime soon.

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September 7th, 2017

@calmSoul60

Hello soul! I am sorry that you feel that you haven't been helping members, we can all feel that way sometimes.

I just had a quick snoop through your profile, and it is quite clear to me that you are indeed a special listener, a great listener, a listener who we are lucky to have here. Your Ratings are truly amazing.

As listeners we can all improve, that is what makes being a listener so so special, we can all always improve our listening game, we always have something to work towards, something to really focus on, right? You don't have to do that alone, though! To help improve your abilities as a listener you can connect with a mentor, you can discuss this with them.

If you truly would like to leave 7 cups, I get that. But I do hope you don't heart

You can do a few things, you can deactivate your account in your settings, doing this makes your account poof, it becomes hidden until you reactivate it. Or you can request for your account to be deleted, to do so please email community@7cups.com from the email which your account is connected to.

I hope you're well!

User Profile: sparklyseaweed
sparklyseaweed September 8th, 2017

I just realised that you're the Listener I ended up connecting with the other day and reading this post just made my heart sorrowful...

I apologise if I had anything to do with the feelings you may be having about being a "bad listener" and the like...

I'm sorry that the other night I stopped talking to you... I understand how terrible that was, and I'm really sorry...

I got anxious over how weird I sounded and got embarrassed with myself, so I ended up closing the tab and not responding..

I never thought you were a bad listener at all... crying

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User Profile: calmSoul60
calmSoul60 OP September 9th, 2017

@sparklyseaweed

Thank you for your kind words. Yes I'm not the same listener you talked about. That is okay. We all sometimes get sacared of talking. Eventually we open up. Remember, listeners arw here to help you feel better. So give them a chance and talk. You will feel a lot better after ☺

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sparklyseaweed September 8th, 2017

OHHHHHH SHOOT I'VE JUST REALISED YOU'RE NOT THE SAME LISTNER FROM LAST NIGHT.. blushblush

Sorry, I thought you were @WildWings86 or whoever they were.. oh my.. I'm sorry.. whoops... still my point stands, you're not a bad listener. If someone's been sending abusive messages they should be handled with.